WEEK 1 (MAY 1ST - 8TH) - Birthday month is
upon us. Dallin has only been asking for about 2 months now when his
birthday is. May 1st Ava and I were in Utah at a vb tournament so these
three and Jed went out to Osgood to check cows. It was a windy, dusty
day but they still found this desert lizard.
Monday
night we went out to dinner to celebrate the boys' birthday. We went
early so Grandma and Grandpa Foster could come with us before they left
to Hawaii, but Grandma couldn't end up coming down. I thought the boys
would love watching the fire as the chef cooked our meal. They thought
it was pretty cool, but none of the kids really liked the food. Ava
liked the sushi but not the grilled food.
Afterward
I had to take Ava to volleyball practice. As I was driving home I
turned onto 4200 from the highway to Ririe and saw the most incredible
view of the western sky as the sun was setting.
One
day it rained pretty much the whole day. Kinsley played outside in the
rain and got really wet so she was cold and thought she'd warm up if
she put on every piece of pjs she had. Well of course the boys had to
follow suit and then sumo wrestle. The weather was really crazy - one
day rain, one day pretty cold, the next day warm enough for Ava to
decide to read outside.
Today
there was a shooting at the middle school. My friend texted me asking
if my kids were ok and then I started getting texts from the school
saying there was an "incident". It was a 6th grade girl that had a kill
list and she showed up with 5-6 guns in her bag. Two students were
shot as well as the janitor. Kasen was home doing his online classes so
he was safe, but the entire school was in lockdown and then released.
We couldn't even believe it - in Rigby?! Thursday was Dallin's spring
recital where all the Let's Play Music kids could show off their skills
for parents and family. Dallin was excited about it all day. We didn't
know if it would still happen with the shooting, but the teacher said
we needed the happiness today after everything with the shooting. We
practiced his songs lots of time. He was so energetic and wiggly as he
sang each song. One of the things I love most about Dallin is how he
wears his enthusiasm in every detail of his facial expressions. I hope
he never loses that. It was really fun for him to be in Jaxon's class
this year. Jaxon has started coming around to enjoying Dallin's company
I think!
This
Saturday was Kasen's 13th birthday but he went with Jed to his
conference in Boise Thursday - Saturday. It ended up being a good thing
because I wasn't sure how I would get everywhere on Saturday with Jed
gone and make his birthday fun. While in Boise Kasen and Jed went to
the Nike store, a steakhouse for Kasen's bday dinner, and Kasen went to
basketball games with Tresa and Jeff. They also got to see little baby
Trae Ball. Before they came home they drove through our old
neighborhood in Meridian and out past our Eagle property. They said it
has grown and changed a ton! So many people everywhere. With Kasen
gone, I took the kids to Pocatello Friday night for Ava's pool play.
Saturday morning I went to the stake women's conference where I had a
part. I had to share a way I let God prevail in my life. I spoke about
daily repentance and how that let's me let God prevail. Then I raced
home and took Kinsley and Dallin to G/G Erickson's house to play with
their Kay cousins while I raced down to Pocatello to watch Ava's final
day of club volleyball. She had been texting that they were playing so
good all day, but when I showed up they stopped doing good. They ended
up losing in the championship game. All the girls were so rude and
pouty. When one parent asked for a picture they all complained. Then
after the picture they walked to their cars. Not a word was said about
it being the end of club season. Not a "hey way to go everybody". It
was weird and actually kind of a fitting ending to this season. These
girls were not nice and very drama-esque and I'm glad Ava will hopefully
never have to play with them again.
Kasen
and Jed got home about 10:30pm on Saturday but we waited up so we could
celebrate on Kasen's actual bday. He was so excited to show us his new
shoes that he picked out while in Boise. He also got a new basketball,
some roping pants and new boots, and some comic books Ava picked out
for him. Ava is always a great gift giver! Kasen was really into the
supermodel pose tonight and with his boots on he is almost as tall as
Ava.
Ava
wanted to make the boys' cakes this year and for Kasen she made a
6-pack cake since Kasen is always talking about his 6 pack.
Kasen
is definitely a great kid. We can't believe we now have two teenagers
in the house. Some funny things about Kasen right now are "hey mom",
his obsession with Nike shoes, dimples, and voice changes. He is a
great brother and son.
WEEK 2 (MAY 9TH - 15TH) - Mother's
day was another special day. Kinsley and Dallin woke up early and made
me breakfast in bed. Dallin colored a picture for me in primary. Ava
gave me a gift certificate to get my nails done. She said, "It's a
place in Rigby and it's a little ghetto, but you have an appointment on
Tues." She arranged the whole thing which was super sweet of her.
Kasen and Jed had picked out some things from the Nike store for me. It
was a sweet day and they all made me feel appreciated.
Monday
was Dallin's 5th birthday. I can't believe it. This last year has
just flown by. Rigby was having a community event to bring unity after
the shooting so Kasen, Kinsley, Dallin, and I went to it. There were a
lot of people there and it I told Dallin the whole community wanted to
have a birthday party for him!
Ava's
cake for Dallin was a Tiger which was perfect. We had a little
birthday party and everyone came over to watch him open presents. He
got a tree house toy that had wooden animals, water guns, new shoes, and
a comic book of Calvin & Hobbes (little blond boy with imaginary
friend Tiger) from Ava. Dallin is a one of a kind kid. He is usually very happy and animated. He loves his family and his best friend Claw.
This
weekend was the fathers/sons campout for our ward. Kasen and Dallin
were so excited. They took the trailer and headed out Friday night. So
it was just the girls for the night. We ordered Papa Kelsey's and
chilled together.
WEEK 3 (MAY 16TH - 22ND) - Another
week down! Can't believe how fast they go. The kids are always
learning and growing. Ava taught herself how to make macaroons, Kasen
had his invention exhibit for GT, Kinsley got her hair chopped to
donate!
Ava
decided to take a job for the summer at Huck's Square Ice Cream in Swan
Valley. The Berry's recently purchased the gas station and they
offered Ava a job. It will be quite a commute, but she is excited.
Saturday was her training day so we went to Swan Valley for the day
while she was at her training. We brought some salt up for the cows and
Kasen did his 2 mile run for PE. That night we went out to G/G
Ericksons because Jason, Gini, and Lillia came up to visit Evan's grave
this weekend. We spent the night talking and catching up.
WEEK 4 (MAY 23RD - 31ST) - Last week of school! Google photos sent me these with the caption "5 years ago this week". So much can change in 5 years.
I
forget how creative my kids are sometimes. One day Kinsley decided to
make a stuffed koala and she did it all by herself with lots of tape.
Dallin got inspired and made a pet platypus he now calls Platy that he
packs around everywhere.
Kinsley
had field day on Wednesday. All kids from the Virtual Academy were
invited. They had a lot of fun activities. Sometimes I wonder if
virtual school was a good idea for Kinsley. I definitely feel like I
failed her in all the fun I said we would have with her staying home.
I
took a chance this week and got my hair done - it's been about 1.5
years since I even had a trim so it was definitely time. The lady did
my hair a lot lighter than expected so it will take some getting used
to. Ava had an eye appointment and it was the first one in a few years
that her prescription hasn't gotten worse!
Friday
was the kids' last day of school! I feel like I sort of failed Dallin
as well when it came to homeschool preschool. Luckily he is a smart kid
like his siblings and he picks up on things really fast. They are all
going to school next year. Dallin will be in the Chinese immersion
program. I would say everyone changed quite a bit this year. Ava
hasn't grown much but she looks older, Kasen probably changed the most
and grew the most, Kinsley looks a little more grown up, and Dallin grew
but luckily still looks like a kid. The rest are trying to grow out of
the kid stage on me!
Friday
afternoon we also met family to visit the graves. Malorie's family was
up for the weekend. We went to the Idaho Falls cemetery first to honor
our Manwaring side of the family. Both Ava and Kasen had last day of
school parties they wanted to attend so they weren't with us. Grandma
Foster had flags for everyone and she asked Heath to lead us all in the
Pledge of Allegiance and she told us about her parents.
Then
we drove back to Rigby to Pioneer Cemetery to honor our Foster side of
the family. Marilyn met us there and Grandma had a balloon for everyone
to release. One of Grandma Melba's famous sayings was "Keep Your Rows
Straight" so we said "5-6-7-8 Keep your rows straight" and released the
balloons. Then we walked over to the Dewain Foster Memorial park. I am
so very blessed to have such an amazing heritage.
Saturday
morning we headed up to the ranch. We spent the majority of the day
working on projects. We cleaned out the garage and hauled a huge pile
away to the dump, burned a huge pile of garbage, and sorted and
organized Grandma's stuff. Another group - mostly the men and Kasen and
Heath - helped build new fences and corrals. Then they had a burn pile
and Grandpa tore up some concrete. We had to move some cows to the
front pasture as well. We spent 7 hours working but it was really fun
and reminded me of growing up and spending the weekends with cousins
working on the farm.
Mid-day
we did take a break to go see Ava at work and get the world famous
square ice cream. It had been super busy today and we were just another
rush of customers. When we show up for ice cream we really show up.
It is so fun to see how many grandkids there are! Afterward Ava just
wanted to hold baby Cash and read!
That
evening we had a Memorial day bbq and smores roasting. It was a
wonderful day and I felt so much gratitude to live in a beautiful place
where we enjoy so much freedom and peace.
Sunday
we went out to Lewisville to honor our Erickson side of the family.
Evan's grave was level and they plan to order a headstone this next
year. It still seems surreal that he has been gone for 9 months.
Monday
- the offical Memorial Day holiday - found us back in Swan Valley. Ava
had another day of work and since it was a busy driving weekend we took
her back up and went to the ranch to have fun. Sydnee was the only
family up there because Mal had left about noon. So the kids had a
little more time to play together. I think they could play all day
everyday together though.